D1 is presently writing his second semester..sorry, second term exams after which the school will go on break for at least 2 weeks or more. Nothing changes for me though as both boys would have to make do with staying at the creche during the break. Mum & dad gotta keep working now.
The week has been full of revisions and reviews though that doesnt stop them from watching cartoon while I am busy making dinner.
I remember before D1 started his 3rd term exams last year, his teachers practically begged me to please stop him watching cartoons at home.
His concentration and attention span had taken a downward plunge in recent times. When they were being taught in class, my little one would start slapping his left wrist with his right hand in typical Ben10 fashion and scream out loud “now it’s hero time” or he would pick his Ben10 bag and start kissing the picture on it.
Real cause of concern if you ask me. Consequently, Ben10 and other cartoons depicting violence were weeded out pronto. Now I am not an advocate of giving the TV plus cable to charity but when things turn out this way, then it calls for drastic actions. I intimated hubby of the new development and he seemed to think he would outgrow it but we should still limit the time he spends watching cartoon for now.
Consequently, we now try to regulate the time spent watching cartoons versus the time spent playing or interacting. Also we got educational CDs for them which we put on the CD player for them occasionally.
I read about a recent study which suggests that ‘fast-paced’ cartoons negatively impact kids development and their ability to think creatively. Some would even recommend the no TV policy for kids under 3years. There has actually been many studies over the years of the detrimental effects of TV.
Personally, I favour educating cartoons like Dora the explorer, Art Attack, etc but I have also discovered that they tend to spend too much time watching this and can practically recite some or all of the lines of some they had watched over and over to the detriment of other constructive activities. It practically limits the time they spend exploring their creativity.
Educating or not, I believe also that not regulating and monitoring them may lead to their adopting these cartoon characters as ‘role models’
On the other hand, maybe selfishly now, I tend to use the TV to babysit when I have pretty important stuffs to attend to. For instance during my sewing sessions, I have to keep them occupied with cartoons otherwise I get to achieve nothing.
I also make it a point of duty to keep the connecting door open and also pop in to check on them while they are at it.
To any mother or intending mother that may come across this, do you honestly think cartoons are bad for kids?
If yes, what do you think can be used as a substitute for cartoons besides educational CDs? How can one keep them occupied or entertained?
And how are you dealing with this issue or how do you intend dealing with it?